This is probably the final segment on my gleamings from the book ‘Nurture Shock’ by PO Bronson & Ashley Merryman.

A disclaimer here first – I’m no linguist and definitely not anywhere close to being regarded as a language expert. Where the English language is concerned, Yang speaks and writes better than I do. I had to sit for a English proficiency test in order to gain entry to a local university. You get the idea :)

The authors of the book has a chapter devoted to exploring why some children pick up language skills sooner as compared to others. In other words, why do some children speak sooner, better and more confidently than others? According to findings, baby DVDs did little to encourage infants to grow in the area of speech. So, save your moola on buying into all that hype. It was observed that infants learn faster from watching real humans speak than being parked in front of the black box watching educational videos. They learn best by watching how your mouth and facial muscles move as you speak. Monkey see, monkey do. That’s the current wisdom. :)

Hannah has taught Pluto how to surf board.

Hannah has taught Pluto how to surf board. We did not teach her how to do this though.=)

Another interesting observation was that children progress faster when other persons around them respond to topics that interest them. For example, if a child point her finger excitedly at a dead flower on the ground and her grandmother picks it up and talks about it in a similar tone of excitement, the child will often quickly absorb new vocabulary associated with the moment. I’ve seen a mother who put her daughter down when her kid alerted her to a little bird that flew over them. The mother dismissed her daughter’s interest and observational skill and muttered something like her daughter was only interested in birds. Perhaps the mother was not in the right mood. But it was an opportunity lost.

I noticed that Hannah learn better when I let her rope me into her daily chatter about her nursery school, toys, games, etc. I simply ‘played’ along with her enthusiasm in various subjects. I’d casually slip in new words or proper grammar in my communication with her and leave it up to her to pick them up. And she would almost always subconsciously or consciously copycat me to express herself in the topic too. And it has been amazing how the young brain could so effortlessly remember those new words which were uttered only once sometimes.

Since the beginning of nursery school this year, Hannah has developed a positive attitude towards learning the Chinese language. I don’t know what is her Chinese teacher’s secret formula but I do know that Hannah is fond of this particular teacher. She often mentions her in our conversations. My guess is that this Chinese teacher practises “people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care” (quote by John C Maxwell). Children are also sensitive and sensible towards the level of care shown by people around them. In the area of language, I believe that head knowledge and the heart must work hand-in-hand to bring out the best in a child’s development. And a head start in language acquisition should help a child communicate her needs and feelings better and reduce unnecessary frustration that growing up brings.

 

My best friend Doreen, an experienced teacher in primary school education, once shared with me that a child grows and develops when she is sleeping. Being uninformed then, I used to associate sleep with down time for the body to rest rather than an important aspect for growth in children.

Hannah was asleep while sending daddy off at the airport during the wee hours of morning in Dec 2009.

A few months back, Yang bought a parenting book entitled ‘Nurture Shock’ by PO Bronson & Ashley Merryman. It was highly recommended by his manager. As a science person, I readily lapped up the new information and insights on rearing children that were linked to research findings. Additionally, my training in biology allows me to process the neurological explanations that support the mantra that sleep is important to growing children.

The gist of all that were mentioned and said is this: children who sleep well are intelligent, happy and less likely to become obese.

Slumber time for kids is different from adults. A good night’s sleep helps in long-term learning of language, times tables and any other content-loaded subjects. When a child sleeps, the brain shifts into an efficient storage mode. What was learnt in the day, say new vocabulary, the brain will store psycho-motor skills for enunciation, auditory memories of new sounds and emotions linked to those new words during the different stages of sleep. The more a child learns that day, the more she needs to sleep that very night. What is more is that when she wakes up, she would come up with new insights on her learning the previous day.

Take one of my students for example. She has been consistently doing well for her science tests not because she burns midnight oil to do revision but because she lavishes time to sleep in the night. She maximises the time in the day to learn as much as possible through active listening and questioning during my science lessons and let her brain does the rest at night. She didn’t know anything about the importance of sleep. Rather, she happens to love her sleep. Recently, I noticed that Hannah also displayed the secretive functions of the brain. She learnt ’2 + 2 = 4′ from watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse on TV and the next day, she could show us the concept by holding 2 toys in each hand and declared saying “see, two and two is four”. Isn’t that a little application in daily life by the brain?

Gotta knock out first, mommy. It’s growing time.

Now the happy part. In our brain, negative emotions are processed by the amygdala while positive memories gets processed by the hippocampus. The hippocampus’ function is affected more than the amygdala when a person is sleep deprived. Consequently, the person has trouble recalling happy memories and at the same time can remember unhappy times clearly. The more sleep deprived a person is, the more easily depression creeps in.

It sounds strange to dissociate sleep from obesity. I was under the impression that the more one sleeps, the more sedentary one gets and hence the result would be weight gain. Well, recent research says otherwise. Sleep loss can trigger hormonal changes that affect one’s weight. I remember that whenever I stayed up late to study or work, I got hungry easily and resorted to snacking. The culprit is a hormone called ghrelin. Sleep loss also increases the amount of cortisol, a stress hormone, which stimulates the body to make fat. What is worse is the release of human growth hormone that breaks down fat in our body for growth during sleep is affected at the same time.

In conclusion, the earlier a child develops good sleeping habits, the more she would benefit from it. A child’s brain is continuously developing until she hits 21. Any sleep loss during the first 21 years of life will have greater impact on a child’s growth as compared to adults.

Brain is busy. Do not disturb!

 

Both copies of Hannah’s photo book arrived yesterday morning, after spending just under 48 hours in transit from the printer’s Seattle office to Singapore. The most recent pictures that made it into the book were just taken on the 2 Sep, and it took just about a week for Blurb to produce a high quality book, and ship it over here.

It was a bit of a risk choosing all the most expensive print and shipping options. Each of the Standard Landscape 10×8 inches (25×20 cm) 220 pages books cost USD109, with the ProLine Pearl photo paper, ProLine Charcoal linen and ProLine Black End sheets options, alongside USD38 with FedEx’s priority shipping. But seeing the final product, I’m glad I didn’t scringed. Even Ling remarked how distinctly better-feeling the paper felt and sharper the photos looked.

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Two copies of the book just after delivery; one book is still shrink-wrapped.

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Volumes III to VI.
Top left to right; from Ling’s pregnancy to Hannah @ 3 months old, Hannah @ 8 months;
Bottom left to right: Hannah @ 1 year old, and lastly the new book, Hannah @ 3 years old.

Hannah took a lot of interest in the new book too, asking if she could look at her own pictures inside it. What’s even the more amazing is that just at past the age of three, she’s able to now remember many things from as long as nearly a year ago. For example, presents she got for Christmas and who gave them to her when looking at the pictures with our Christmas tree last December, and easily even more recent events like our Telunas Resort trip. And she remembered our Ang Mo bud quite well too, pointing to a photo taken of the two and chiming excitedly that “Uncle Matt was with us at the beach!”.

The irony though is that Hannah has been a little grouchy this last week, and no longer smiles for us for pictures. Hopefully it’s just a temporary phase since she’s been also a little sick (like Ling and myself) with a viral cough. Otherwise there wouldn’t be picture material for me to do the inevitable Book VII. :)

Hannah’s Blurb book was completed last night. And after two more rounds of checking, it was finally sent to the printer early this morning with an order of two books. The book weighs in at 220 pages and 289 pictures. I bit the bullet for the most pricey and highest quality paper options too – professional grade paper that’s manufactured by Mohawk – figuring that photographic memories of Hannah are well worth the expense. The final cost per book was about USD109 – almost two times the price of USD57 for Hannah’s last book. Ouch.

The weekend was a little more busy than our usual laidback vegetating/playing at home. We had a delightful dinner event with our small group on Friday evening, followed by a one year birthday bash for one of Ling’s cousin’s baby boy. The Lumix 20mm f1.7 was the lens of choice again, and I think I’m really getting the hang of this lens now. Early on a year ago, a lot of pictures came slightly blurry when shot at wide-open; but with the correct hand-holding technique, nearly all the pictures are tack sharp in the center now.

Hannah still adores her Goofy toy, though just over the weekend, she asked me to also buy her a toy of her next favorite character – Pluto, and would you have guessed that!

Ling took a bunch of pictures at the party. Liked this one best. How we get her to giggle is to tickle her. Easy.:)

Sister in law remarked that in this photo, she looks exactly like me – “confirmed”.:)

31. August 2012 · Comments Off · Categories: All Posts, At Home, Baby Blues, Books · Tags:

It’s been an incredibly fast two years since I last finished Vita Una: Book V, blogged here. The photo book volume covered Hannah’s growing years up till she was one year old. I was supposed to have worked on two books thereafter – one on the month long Boston trip and another for Hannah – but never got round to it, thanks largely to procrastination. I finally got round to it this week, and after intensely working on it for the last several evenings, have finished selecting and working on the approximately 280 pictures that will be going into this volume. What follows next is writing the words of text that will accompany the pictures.

This volume sits at 220 pages; larger than Book V’s 160 pages too. The costs of printing has also gone up with the company; so while Blurb’s price plans are still cheaper than its competition, the differences are less significant now. Still, it’s a thrill to work on these books, more so when they finally ship and for me to leaf through each page. Blurb has some very premium paper for their books now too; I’ll probably be going for these grades as these volumes are keep sakes for Hannah, and thus well-worth the additional expense.

The series of pictures covers June 2010 to August 2012, and as I mused to Ling yesterday while on our way home from work, as I worked through the about 8,331 pictures of Hannah over this period, I am stunned by how quickly our girl has grown and developed. We’re thankful that Hannah’s healthy, chirpy and so far has been (mostly!) very well-behaved with a reasonably developed sense of respect for others around her and us as parents!

04. October 2010 · Comments Off · Categories: All Posts, Books, Traveling · Tags:

Now that we’ve firmed up our travel dates in December, the next thing we had to decide was where we were going to and how long we would be in each city. One of the most fun things is planning itineraries for trips like these, and we’ve been making use of all information source types: books, the Internet, friends’ recommendations and word of mouth.

Speaking of books; I’ve picked up three travel books just to read. Yeah, most of this information is freely available online but it’s still nice to be able to thumb through pages and to read things in print. The three are:

Japan: Eyewitness Travel Guide

Japan: Insight Guides

Japan by Rail

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The first two cover pretty much the same ground, if presented in somewhat different styles. The third book’s pretty special though. Apart from that it’s the most comprehensive of the three, the book’s place descriptions and commentaries keeps in view transportation modes in Japan. There’s a lot of material on how long it takes to get from one place to another, whether it makes sense to spend time on one at the expense of another when traveling time is involved etc. Pretty good stuff.

10. July 2010 · Comments Off · Categories: All Posts, Books, Reflections, Traveling · Tags:

When I was unpacking at home the 37kg of luggage I had with me from Boston, Ling made a remark that I thought was fun:

“Wow dear; you really bought a lot of stuff there this time.”

And just to put her remark in context; I’d left Singapore with just 23kg of luggage!

She’s right that I did buy a lot more things on this trip than I’ve ever before did. Heck. In all the under a month trips I’ve made in the last decade, the most I’d ever returned with would be one or two shirts, and an equivalent number of fridge magnets.

This time, I returned from Boston with, among other things, a new jacket, two polo-shirts, three T-shirts, an umbrella, three mugs, several toys for Hannah, so many fridge magnets that they weighed about a kilogram in net weight, and ten books –a few of which are really heavy.

blog-wings-01 One book that I picked up from Borders at the intersection between School and Washington streets was With Wings Like Eagles by Michael Korda, a London-born author who once was the editor-in-chief of Simon & Schuster in NYC, and currently today lives in the city.

Accounts of leaders in the face of adversity have always fascinated me. This book looks at the three month-long Battle of Britain in 1940, but from the perspectives of leading politicians and military leaders of countries who were involved in it. I’m aware that for many of us, or at least those of us who might read this blog occasionally, the only persons who might be even familiar would be Winston Churchill and Adolf Hitler.

But without getting into too much detail in this post, the individual whose decisions had the most impact on the historical fact that England did not get overrun that year was neither person. Rather, it was a British officer, Hugh Dowding, who was placed in command of the small number of British fighter planes who had the very difficult job of stopping the Germans from attaining air superiority before actually invading the isles.

The book maintains a high level of discourse; exploring the conflicts and circumstances between Churchill and Dowding, of Dowding and his commanders, and their individual personalities. Unfortunately, despite that history would had been very different had Dowding not had the moral courage and foresight and gone against Churchill to make the decisions he did then, he was eventually given the political shaft by his rivals and enemies, an outcome he became extremely bitter about in his remaining years after the war.

It was more than a little sad to read in the last chapters of his fall from grace and from great heights of achievement, the more so that his political assassination seemed more from spite from his detractors and rivals than through any real character failings on his part.

I was reading With Wings Like Eagles initially slowly – several pages at a time – each morning over breakfast at Blue’s, then finished the remaining half of the book on a single shot over the long flight home from Boston to Singapore.

The next historical book I’m reading now I picked up from the Harvard University bookstore, and it’s about four American and Japanese officers and how their lives and careers got intertwined. More on it later.:)

08. June 2010 · Comments Off · Categories: All Posts, At Home, Baby Blues, Books, Photography & Cameras · Tags:

Just over three months ago in February I posted briefly about starting work on Vita Una: Book V. The fifth volume is finally about done. And not a moment too soon too, since I’m hoping to do a final check through it before sending it to the printers before I fly off. The book covers the last four months of our Hannah and up till yesterday – her first birthday.

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I’ll be working on two more books next, likely simultaneously: one for travels which will include pictures from the Boston trip, and another Hannah book – this time covering likely up till she’s 18 months old.:)

07. April 2010 · Comments Off · Categories: All Posts, Baby Blues, Books · Tags:

I realized I haven’t done an updated entry on the fourth volume of Vita Una since posting about it more than a month ago here. The volume was titled Vita Una IV: To One that covered Hannah going onto one year old, shipped on the 25 Feb, and was properly delivered on the 11th March. Unlike Volume III, the printing for both copies of the book was perfect this time, and I was immensely pleased with the USD132 I paid for the entire package.

Here’s the landscape coffee-table sized book:

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Given the very large number of photos I’m taking of Hannah, I started work on Book V: At One immediately after finishing the fourth volume. It should, hopefully, cover the months from mid-February to Hannah’s forthcoming first birthday in early June – and is already half-completed. Pretty consuming and a lot of work, but the pay off is incredible – seeing printed pictures of our little tot now, and that hopefully in 20 years time, our adult Hannah will find these memories equally meaningful.:)

Writing and preparing yet another Blurb book has become a regular ritual for me. As soon as I finished Book III of the series of Vita Una books last September, I began work on Book IV:

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The initial plan for the fourth book was to cover the period from Hannah at 3 months to when she’s a year old, but the large number of pictures I liked and are significant in Hannah’s life journey accelerated the production quite a bit.

This new volume covers the period between 24 Sep last year to 21 Feb 2010 and just a shade under five months. There’re more photos than the previous volume too: a projected 221 compared to 182, though that’s come at the expense of text. The format of the book, like the previous volumes, stipulates a maximum of 160 pages – a bummer since I’d really like to do up more pages if I could.

I suspect that the next volume – Book V – will come out even quicker, and that’s in view of the travels we’ve had that weren’t centered specifically on Hannah and I haven’t yet covered in the series of books. Specifically, I’d like the next book to at least cover the San Francisco and Kumamoto Trips, and Hannah turning one in June this year – and if at all possible, perhaps even pictures from the Boston trip if plans work out.